Social media trend sparks debate on parenting styles and children’s rights
A growing social media trend has reignited debate around parenting practices, as adults ask their children to complete common phrases once used in harsher parenting styles, according to an article published in The Guardian. Sayings like “I’ll give you something to cry about” are being humorously and touchingly reimagined by children raised in more nurturing environments—for instance, “I’ll give you something to help you with.”
The trend highlights a broader shift away from punitive discipline, with experts warning that verbal and physical punishment can cause long-term psychological harm. Professor Eamon McCrory, of mental health charity Anna Freud, told MPs that early verbal abuse can significantly impact self-worth and emotional development.
The conversation has reached high-profile figures, with Michelle Obama recently reflecting on her regret over using corporal punishment, describing it as a failure of adult responsibility. Experts argue that both verbal and physical punishment constitute violations of children’s rights, urging for legal reforms and greater societal support for parents.
Smacking remains legal in England and Northern Ireland, despite calls for a nationwide ban.
Advocates suggest the UK needs a cultural shift towards more child-centred values, encouraging empathy and respect for children’s voices rather than reinforcing adult dominance.
